Aimee Says: AI That Reveals the Patterns of Relationship Abuse

This month we’re sitting down with Anne Wintemute, founder and CEO of Aimee Says, for a fireside conversation about what it looks like to build AI that serves women’s actual lives.

Aimee Says is a private, 24/7 AI companion for women facing relationship abuse. It helps them analyze what’s happening, document incidents, and reveal the patterns underneath the day to day. Verbal, emotional, financial, coercive control, post separation. The categories that are hardest to name in the moment, and hardest to prove later.

What Anne is really building is rarer than a support tool. She’s building data infrastructure for experiences that have been kept evidentially thin on purpose. Her work is less “AI for survivors” and more “AI as the architecture that finally makes structural patterns visible.” When thousands of personal interactions get aggregated into a map, something shifts. What is denied individually, the data publicly affirms.

Anne is coming to think alongside this community, and we’ll sit with the questions she’s been turning over with us: what does AI for Good actually produce, what counts as evidence when the experience was never named as a category worth counting, and what becomes possible when women author the data architecture themselves.

There will be a moment where Anne will show us what she has built.

Bring your curiosity, your sharpest questions, and a friend who would want to be in this room. Anne asked for a space of critical women thinking out loud together. That’s exactly what we’re setting up.

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